I was a fan of Alan Cumming even before he become a household name with The Good Wife, but this memoir make me respect him even more a person and an artist.
If it was a physical book, it’d be a page turner, but I’m almost sure it’s even better in audio. He narrates this himself and just how good he was didn’t surprise me – I’d already listed him as a favorite narrator after listening to the Leviathan series.
Don’t expect Not My Father’s Son to be lighthearted. It does have its hilarious moments (his ode to Eurovision was perfection), but mostly it’s about growing up with a physically and emotionally abusive father. Half of the book is about his childhood and the other half about him dealing with his past as an adult. This last part of the story is divided between an episode portraying his father’s ability to still disrupt his family and the other follows Cumming’s cathartic participation in the Who Do You Think You Are show. I don’t usually watching it, but by chance caught his episode when it first aired on the BBC and clearly remember how emotional it was (see it here, have the Kleenexes handy).
Some scenes were really hard to hear and made me hug my son extra hard. They weren’t overly dramatized, but the child’s voice was clearly there, all frightened and confused. Not My Father’s Son was really a roller-coaster ride of emotions we take along with Cumming. It’s impossible not to share his joy, amazement, pain, hope. This not only testifies to his writing and narration skills, but also his willingness to be open and genuine.
If Not My Father’s Son was a piece of fiction it would probably end with redemption or vindication. But it’s real life and I must be satisfied with admiration for human courage and our capacity to overcome adversity and make it a strength.
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April 16, 2015 at 5:44 pm
candidkay
I keep hearing good things about this one . . .
April 20, 2015 at 12:51 pm
Alex
With good reason, it’s really good!
April 16, 2015 at 11:00 pm
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April 17, 2015 at 1:15 am
Athira
This sounds so powerful! I wasn’t too keen on it initially – my memoir reading has become very selective lately but this one is going on my list.
April 20, 2015 at 12:51 pm
Alex
Any recommendations? This year I’ve been a memoir mood.
April 22, 2015 at 8:40 pm
Athira
I’m more a fan of memoirs/biographies about people who have done or been through crazy stuff. Weird, I know. So some of the memoirs I enjoyed are I am Malala, Hatching Twitter (this is more about the people who made Twitter but not really very memoir-ish), Unbroken, The Good Daughter by Jasmin Darznik, Everything I never wanted to be by Dina Kucera, We Bought a Zoo, Denial by Jessica Stern, The Long Goodbye by Meghan O’Rourke, How to be a Woman, The Man in the Rockefeller Suit. Some of these are biographies not memoirs. Hope you find something that you will like too! 🙂
April 17, 2015 at 12:20 pm
farmlanebooks
I listened to the abridged BBC radio version of this and was very impressed. I haven’t seen the Who Do I Think You Are episode though and am interested to see the emotion play out in real-time. Thanks for the link – I’ll watch it later 🙂
April 20, 2015 at 12:52 pm
Alex
I really recommend it (the episode). I’ve only watched it a hand-full of this, but his was the best.